Why do people get on my nerves so much?? Yes it’s true that some people we get on with while others will continue to annoy us and always be at the forefront of our lives wishing they would change. The people we like and get on with reflect back the parts of ourselves we like and uncomfortable with while the ones who annoy us reflect the parts we’re not so comfortable with. Maybe it’s the outgoing people or the ones that get emotional at the drop of a hat? Think of the kind of people that annoy you???
Have you ever considered these might be the parts of yourself that you don’t want to show others, e.g. You might not like selfish people but sometimes but this quality in small doses can be helpful as we forget about ourselves when taking care of others. This is a good opportunity to embrace all of ourselves, the parts we like and don’t like and a good reminder ‘God didn’t make any spare parts.’ This is where we can look at embracing all our qualities and using them constructively in certain situations…then the magic happens as we don’t keep attracting back the people who annoy us or they don’t have the same effect ☺
